8.25.2009

Butterfly Kisses - Gem


I think this is soooo sweet and cute..! I love it...

Pink candy canes and butterfly kisses
Close your eyes darling, fulfill all your wishes
Slide down the rainbow into a sea of gold
To a magical place where you never grow old

Keep a tight hold of your dear teddy bear
Watch as the mermaids comb their shining hair
They'll sing you a song with voices so sweet
Listening to them is such a lovely treat

Chocolate drops fall from a Vanilla sky
Pixies and fairies are all flying high
Scattering pixie dust over your head
This is better than any fairytale you've read

The glitter carousel is waiting to start
Shimmering unicorns beg you to take part
The organ strikes up a tinkling tune
About a little cow who jumped over the moon

Pink candy floss cloads float lazily past
Time in this dreamworld flies by way too fast
A cute little elf reaches for your hand
Ring around the roses then fall on the sand

Butterfly kisses and cold lemonade
An enchanted dreamworld that your mind has made
So go to sleep sweetheart, close your tired eyes
Spend all your sweet dreams with magic butterflies

A Good Man... As Defined by LaConya

Everyone has their own definition of what a good man is.

A lot of woman say that there isn't any left. And some say there never was any to begin with.

I say you attract what you are. If you constantly messin with the same type of people, blame you not them.

So, I just want to let people know what I feel a good man does, should do, shouldnt do and so on.

Here goes.........

* A good first and foremost is honest and straight up about every thing he does. He doesn't lie, decieve, nor mislead. He keep it 100. He keep it real

* A good man knows the value and worth of not just a good woman, but a woman in general. That all woman should be treated with the upmost respect. Even when she doesn't respect herself. (Maybe she was never taught how to).

* A good man, will put his children before himself, no matter what kind of relationship he has with the mother.

* A good man doesn't claim to be a good man cuz he deined 1 woman this time, just to prove that he could do. He does it everytime, because he appriciates whats he has at home.

* A good man will not put his habds on a woman for any reason. But at the same time,a woman should never provoke him to do so. Then play the victim role.

* I was raised to know that the man is head of the house hold ONLY if he is the bread winner, and earning that title. Only if takes care of home. Only if he deserves it. (Old fashioned values do still exsist.)

* A good man will sit in the emergency room with you til the wee hours of the morning, because he cares that much.

* A good man will do for you because you deserve it, not cuz you have a fit for it.

* A good man knows your inner most, outter worst and will still stand by your side and ride for you.

* A good man should not be a dictator but a negotiator. As in we gone come to a resolution that we both agree with.

* A good man shouldn't be defined by the car he drives, or how much he makes. Money don't make the man, the man makes the money.

* A good man is God loving and God fearing. He has a spiritual understanding.

* A good man does with his heart not with his dick.

* Sex, does not not define a man as that.

*A good man can be spotted by the way he treats his mother, his grandmother. No respect there, minimal any where else.

* A good man will let you cry. Just because you want to, need to. Then will console you.

* Saying your a good man a million times doesn't make it ture.

* A good man has a future. Has a destination. Has aspirations, dreams goals. A good man has a plan to make them all happen.

These aare just somethings, I, LaConya would use to define A good man. A real man.

By all means, if I forgot anything. Feel free to let me know.....

A Good Woman... As Defined by Someone Striving To Become One

Everyone has their own definition of what a good woman is.

A lot of men {{and boys}} say there aern't any good woman... Not that there aren't any left, but that there wasn't any to begin with.

I just want to let people know what I feel a good woan does, should do, shouldn't do and so on.

Here goes...

* A good woan, first and foremost, should be a woman of God..or who ever her higher power maybe... You can't expect to have a good foundation without a spiritual one.

* A woman should be what holds the family together. She is the backbone.

* A woman should honest with her partner. I don't believe in that "Never let a man know everything garbage". If he's a good man, you can't help but want to tell him ANY AND EVERYTHING.

* A good woman knows when to address her man about thier personal business.

* A good woman knows that a relationship is another word for partnership. She knows that itsn't always about her.

* A good woman doesn't lay up and have children by every John, Dick, and Tom because he said he loves her. She doesn't need a man to love her becaause her love for herslf is more important than anyone's will ever be.

* A good woman takes care of her children first, herself next, a man last.

* A good woman deserves to be treated with as much respect as she gives herself.

* A good woman knows where home is.

* Being a woman is not defined by your age, nor the amount of money you spent for your things. A woman is defined by what she does and how she does it. How well she takes care of home. They way she carries herself as well as they she handels things. A real woman knows that keeping your cool is the best way to go.

* A good woman thinks before she acts. Contemplates before she speaks.

* A good woman knows that you please a man who deserves it and you. She doesn't give her all to everybody, because she knows when the right one comes, there won't be much to give him.

* A good woman always has a plan B. By plan B I don't mean another man on the side, I mean a back up paln. A just in case this happens... I'm prepared.

* A good woman cooks for her man, cleans for him. She does it and doesn't complain... Well, if he's a good man she doesn't.

* A good woman knows that what you wont do, 100 more will.

* A good woman knows her worth.

* A good woman doesn't sit in every man's face that she see's.

* A good woman to me, to LaConya Sims, is the woman who knows that we are the rock. We are the glue. We are queens. A good woman knows that people need us. We need no one. I think that good woman is the one who thinks with not only her heart, but her mind, body and soul.

* A good woman, has goals, ambitions and dreams.

* A good woman is a fighter.

* A good woman is honest, not only to others, but to and with herself.

These are just somethings, I, LaConya would use to define A good woman. A real woman.

By all means, if I forgot anything. Feel free to let me know.....

A Romantic Day in the Dreams of an Incurable Romantic

I wake up to the sun shining down on me through the open spaces in the curtain and the song Good Morning Beautiful by Steve Holy is playing softly in the background. I roll over to see that you’re not there… but a note on your pillow says “Good Morning Beautiful, Today is your day…. Follow the trail…” I look up and see the petals of white Casablanca Lilies {{because you know I’m allergic to roses}} scattered like a path out of our room leading to the bathroom…


I open the washroom door to a bubble bath waiting for me with bouquets of Lilies and white candles lit throughout. Reluctantly, I get into the tub of perfectly warm water, I hear a slight knock at the door. Looking marvelously handsome in your all white linen pants and shirt, you come in carrying a tray of fruit and orange juice. I ask you what’s this all about, you tell me this is just your way of showing me how much you love me. I smile as you begin to feed me what tastes like fruit straight from the Garden of Eden. You kiss my forehead and tell me all the reasons you love me while you begin to wash my back. When I finish bathing, you open up a big towel and dry me off, you wrap the towel around me then take me by the hand and lead me back into the bedroom. You unwrap my towel then lay me on the bed… You kiss me and tell me and tell all the reasons why I’m perfect for you. From my mouth you leave a trail of kisses down to my belly button. You give me the best head you have ever given me. We then make the greatest love we’ve ever made. I fall asleep in your arms listening to your heart beat the rhythm which I call my favorite song….


You wake me a couple hours later and tell me to get dressed, “I’m taking you somewhere special”, you whisper in my ear. After I get myself together, we drive to a secluded stream. You get out the car and walk over and open my door. You then go to the trunk and take out a picnic basket and blanket. You walk me down a worn path through the prettiest forest, our walk ends at a little spot under a willow tree by a water fall section of the stream. You lay down the blanket and we lay and talk about us, our life together now, the future… our future. You tell me all the wonderful ways I make your life better. I sigh with fulfillment wrapped in your arms listening to the sound of the water fall as we watch the sunset over the tree tops……


When we get back home, there’s a table set for two on the back patio. Candles and Lilies are strewn all around. You pull out my chair, then you have a seat. You begin to tell me all the reasons why you want to spend the rest of your life with me…. We enjoy our quite night alone in all the presence that we will ever need… just ours………………


Then I wake up and I realize that your asleep right next to me… mouth open, drooling and snoring. I kiss you on the forehead, you make up and ask if everything’s ok. I smile and said everything is as it should be………………..

The Way LaConya Views......

LOVE:: Ok, to me, love is the greatest thing ever. The feeling, the being, the knowing. Love is awesome. It makes you happy, sad, mad, angry, stupid, voulnerable, retarded, open for hurt. But you know what, we all should experience it just once. People say tha love shouldn't hurt. Why the hell shouldn't it...?!?! If you say you love someone, and they you, be prepared to cry, to wanna break shit, to talk shit, to not understand or be understood, to feel pain. All this comes wit the territory of being in love. Your goin to get hurt, your going to be let down. But you should expect it... Know why? Because your giving ANOTHER UNPERFECT PERSON yourself, all of you. Not some cuz some isn't what love is. It's giving your all. Now, don't get me wrong, Love can be the exact opposite in every way shape and form. But THIS IS MY VIEW ON IT...! I feel that in order for you to say you love someone, you have to know them at their worst to even begin to, assume, to understnd them at their best. I want somebody to bring out the worst in me. Sounds dumb? Not to me. If you can deal with my worst, you gone love me at my best...!

HATE:: Hating people in every since of the word is fukkin stupid. Like for real...! If you don't have it, do better and go it. If you don't look as good as somebody, make sure you got the best fukkin personality anyone can imagine. If you have a fukked up attitude and ppl dnt like you.... Ummm, I think it's time for some self improvement...!

RELATIONSHIPS:: Where do I begin..!?!? Oh, I knooo... NOBODY IS FUKKIN PERFECT..! THEREFORE THERE IS SO NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP...! Ladies, stop expectin these boy's and men to be perfect. They are human just like you, they make mistakes, they do dumb stuff. Stop expecting what is never going to happen. Accept a person for their flaws or die alone... Like for real... Fellas, stop thinkin teir is a such thing as a perfect woman. We lie, we cheat, we fukk up, just as yall do. So don't act all surprised we a woman flips the script and does as a nigga do. Take it as a loss. Don't get mad at him/her cuz they were only bein human. Take a day to cry and fukkin get over it... Whinin, bitchin and moanin aint gne change the past..! Trust me..! Oh, and never ever eeevvveeerrrrrrr say this dumb as line... E V E R: "HOW CAN YOU SAY YOU LOVE ME AND YOU CHEAT ON ME".... Comin frm both sides (the cheater and cheated) It's fukkin easy. Disassociate your heart from umm, genetailia...(tryna be semi clean). Not proud or boastin abt anything. Just know that it's not hard ppl like to make it seem..... LOVE IS LOVE. SEX IS SEX.

TRUST:: OK, MY FAVE THING TO TALK ABT.... STOP SAYIN YOU WANT SOMEBODY WHO'S HONEST... THIS IS REAL LIFE NOT LIAR LIAR... EVERYBODY LIES... NOBODY IS EVER 100% HONEST 100% OF THE TIME... SAY WHAT YOU WANT BUT I BET YO ASS LYIN...! LIKE I RATHER SOMEBODY BE STRAIGHT UP WIT ME, THEN SIT AND SAY, OH I NEVER LIE... WHEN SOMEBODY SAY THAT TO ME, THEY ARE DUBBED AS A LIAR FRM HERE ON OUT...! LET ME BREAK IT DOWN... BEING STARIGHT UP/REAL/100 MEANS TO LET SOMEBODY KNOW WHAT IS AND WHAT IT AINT. I BE STRAIGHT UP CUZ I WANT PPL TO BE STRAIGHT UP WIT ME..! HONESTY IS WHEN SOMEBODY ASK YOU SOMETHIN AND BE LIKE TELL THE TRUSTH...! YOU MAY NOT SEE A DIFFERENCE BUT IN "LALA LAND" AS JAMOR CALLS MY LIL WORLD, ITS A BIG DIFFERENCE.

RELIGION:: YOU CAN BELIEVE IN A HIGHER POWER WITHOUT HAVING AN AFFILIATION TO ANY SET RELIGION. I BELIEVE IN GOD. BUT I DONT CALL MYSELF ANYTHING. I AM SPIRITUAL, NOT RELIGIOUS. I HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH MY HIGHER POWER. AND WHERE EVER I PRAISE HIM, TALK TO HIM, REPENT TO HIM OR WHAT EVER THE CASE MAYBE SHOULD NOT MATTER....

RACE:: OMFG... IN THE LORDS OF LACONYA TYESHA SIMS..."MY PROBLEMS, MY RESTRICTIONS, MY OUTSOMES, MY VEIWS, MY EVERYTHING IS OF MY OWN. NOT BECAUSE OF MY SKIN COLOR" DNT LET THAT WHACK ASS SHIT HINDER YOU FROM NOTHIN... IF YOU GOT STOPPED ITS YOOOUUURRR PERSONAL ISSUE NOT CUZ YOU BLACK ASS A CRAYON OR AS WHITE AS CASPER OR AS BROWN AS A FUKKIN TREE...!

Just Rambling.....

Emotions streaming through my veins
This pulsating feeling in my heart,
Is driving me insane
He got my mind racing like I'm speedin through the fast lane.
His love keeps me screamin his name.
Thoughts of him touchin me are etch a sketch'd on my brain
I love it when he touchs me
All these otha guys can keep crushin on me
I got real love
They just wanna be freakin on me
He got me singin every song
His voice is my favorite ring tone
His picture is the background,
on my phone
This coop, I have flown
THis man got me gone.

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lol..... * L A M E N E S S * ...! LOL

Your totally not the Shiz you think you are

So, I totally cannot stand ppl who think their better than any one else... Heads up.. your not...!