A Good Woman... As Defined by Someone Striving To Become One

Everyone has their own definition of what a good woman is.

A lot of men {{and boys}} say there aern't any good woman... Not that there aren't any left, but that there wasn't any to begin with.

I just want to let people know what I feel a good woan does, should do, shouldn't do and so on.

Here goes...

* A good woan, first and foremost, should be a woman of God..or who ever her higher power maybe... You can't expect to have a good foundation without a spiritual one.

* A woman should be what holds the family together. She is the backbone.

* A woman should honest with her partner. I don't believe in that "Never let a man know everything garbage". If he's a good man, you can't help but want to tell him ANY AND EVERYTHING.

* A good woman knows when to address her man about thier personal business.

* A good woman knows that a relationship is another word for partnership. She knows that itsn't always about her.

* A good woman doesn't lay up and have children by every John, Dick, and Tom because he said he loves her. She doesn't need a man to love her becaause her love for herslf is more important than anyone's will ever be.

* A good woman takes care of her children first, herself next, a man last.

* A good woman deserves to be treated with as much respect as she gives herself.

* A good woman knows where home is.

* Being a woman is not defined by your age, nor the amount of money you spent for your things. A woman is defined by what she does and how she does it. How well she takes care of home. They way she carries herself as well as they she handels things. A real woman knows that keeping your cool is the best way to go.

* A good woman thinks before she acts. Contemplates before she speaks.

* A good woman knows that you please a man who deserves it and you. She doesn't give her all to everybody, because she knows when the right one comes, there won't be much to give him.

* A good woman always has a plan B. By plan B I don't mean another man on the side, I mean a back up paln. A just in case this happens... I'm prepared.

* A good woman cooks for her man, cleans for him. She does it and doesn't complain... Well, if he's a good man she doesn't.

* A good woman knows that what you wont do, 100 more will.

* A good woman knows her worth.

* A good woman doesn't sit in every man's face that she see's.

* A good woman to me, to LaConya Sims, is the woman who knows that we are the rock. We are the glue. We are queens. A good woman knows that people need us. We need no one. I think that good woman is the one who thinks with not only her heart, but her mind, body and soul.

* A good woman, has goals, ambitions and dreams.

* A good woman is a fighter.

* A good woman is honest, not only to others, but to and with herself.

These are just somethings, I, LaConya would use to define A good woman. A real woman.

By all means, if I forgot anything. Feel free to let me know.....