A Good Man... As Defined by LaConya

Everyone has their own definition of what a good man is.

A lot of woman say that there isn't any left. And some say there never was any to begin with.

I say you attract what you are. If you constantly messin with the same type of people, blame you not them.

So, I just want to let people know what I feel a good man does, should do, shouldnt do and so on.

Here goes.........

* A good first and foremost is honest and straight up about every thing he does. He doesn't lie, decieve, nor mislead. He keep it 100. He keep it real

* A good man knows the value and worth of not just a good woman, but a woman in general. That all woman should be treated with the upmost respect. Even when she doesn't respect herself. (Maybe she was never taught how to).

* A good man, will put his children before himself, no matter what kind of relationship he has with the mother.

* A good man doesn't claim to be a good man cuz he deined 1 woman this time, just to prove that he could do. He does it everytime, because he appriciates whats he has at home.

* A good man will not put his habds on a woman for any reason. But at the same time,a woman should never provoke him to do so. Then play the victim role.

* I was raised to know that the man is head of the house hold ONLY if he is the bread winner, and earning that title. Only if takes care of home. Only if he deserves it. (Old fashioned values do still exsist.)

* A good man will sit in the emergency room with you til the wee hours of the morning, because he cares that much.

* A good man will do for you because you deserve it, not cuz you have a fit for it.

* A good man knows your inner most, outter worst and will still stand by your side and ride for you.

* A good man should not be a dictator but a negotiator. As in we gone come to a resolution that we both agree with.

* A good man shouldn't be defined by the car he drives, or how much he makes. Money don't make the man, the man makes the money.

* A good man is God loving and God fearing. He has a spiritual understanding.

* A good man does with his heart not with his dick.

* Sex, does not not define a man as that.

*A good man can be spotted by the way he treats his mother, his grandmother. No respect there, minimal any where else.

* A good man will let you cry. Just because you want to, need to. Then will console you.

* Saying your a good man a million times doesn't make it ture.

* A good man has a future. Has a destination. Has aspirations, dreams goals. A good man has a plan to make them all happen.

These aare just somethings, I, LaConya would use to define A good man. A real man.

By all means, if I forgot anything. Feel free to let me know.....